Too little, Too late.

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Re: Too little, Too late. brenalim #2205422 12/14/11 04:40 PM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 81 USA S Some Day Member
Some Day Member S Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 81 USA	Hi Purgatory. Welcome. It's never too late to DB. You've come to the right place. Lots of supportive folks here who are going through similar situations. I concur with brenalim. Keep the focus of your changes on yourself, not because you want H to notice them and change his mind. Both you and H have your own journeys. You can only control your own. Focus on becoming stronger without depending on H to make you feel better/worse about yourself. Once you become stronger, you will gain the mental clarity and endurance you need to DB effectively. Re: The dating promises, etc. Don't believe everything H says. My H said a lot of things (including promising not to date evne while having an affair I was unaware of) that he didn't mean. Sometimes it's because they don't want to "hurt" you, other times they are trying to cover their tracks and don't want to raise your suspicions. So there can be a OW in the picture even if you currently do not find any evidence for it. It may be an EA or a PA. Regardless, it doesn't matter. Don't worry about OW. The more you pressure and ask about OW, the more he will go underground with her if there is one. So again, focus on you and on what is under your control. Continue to be kind and caring (without being clingy or needy), but expect nothing in return. Hang in there. We're all in the same boat. M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing

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Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/13/11 01:41 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/14/11 02:12 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 03:00 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 03:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Some Day	12/14/11 04:40 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/14/11 05:24 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/14/11 08:13 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/15/11 01:34 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/16/11 12:35 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/16/11 04:04 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/16/11 03:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/17/11 04:51 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/18/11 12:11 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/18/11 12:54 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/18/11 04:38 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/18/11 05:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/18/11 06:05 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Harrier	12/18/11 07:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/19/11 02:06 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	kolja	12/19/11 03:10 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/19/11 02:45 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Harrier	12/19/11 02:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 04:06 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/20/11 05:39 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	PERSEVERANCE	12/20/11 06:31 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	seeking answers	12/20/11 10:05 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/20/11 02:15 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 02:28 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	PERSEVERANCE	12/20/11 03:07 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/20/11 04:08 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/20/11 04:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 04:38 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/20/11 06:06 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/20/11 07:08 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 11:02 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Some Day	12/20/11 11:11 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/20/11 11:20 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/20/11 11:44 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 03:01 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/21/11 03:51 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 04:03 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	adinva	12/21/11 04:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/21/11 04:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	kolja	12/21/11 04:46 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/21/11 07:11 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/21/11 07:28 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:48 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	any chance?	12/21/11 07:37 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	workinghardguy	12/21/11 07:48 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:57 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:07 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/21/11 08:04 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/21/11 10:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:13 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/22/11 03:31 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 03:47 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/22/11 07:39 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 08:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/23/11 04:47 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/23/11 02:23 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	brenalim	12/23/11 02:33 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/23/11 05:31 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/23/11 10:25 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/24/11 12:54 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/24/11 01:28 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/24/11 04:42 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/24/11 04:44 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/24/11 05:55 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/24/11 04:26 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/25/11 05:15 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/25/11 06:21 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/25/11 01:05 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/26/11 09:06 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	2thepoint	12/27/11 12:39 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/27/11 01:57 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/28/11 05:56 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/28/11 02:10 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/28/11 06:20 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	DestinyUnknown	12/28/11 08:56 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/28/11 11:35 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/29/11 04:02 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/29/11 05:50 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BFloat	12/29/11 09:16 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/30/11 01:42 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/30/11 03:27 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/30/11 03:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/30/11 04:02 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/31/11 05:49 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/31/11 10:59 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/31/11 02:53 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	nhmom	12/31/11 03:32 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/31/11 04:47 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BFloat	12/31/11 04:56 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	dbmod	12/31/11 10:35 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Jenna333	12/31/11 02:54 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	Rick1963	12/31/11 02:59 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/22/11 02:43 AM
Re: Too little, Too late.	ericmsant2	12/20/11 09:27 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	purgatory	12/20/11 10:31 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	sunshine76	12/26/11 09:55 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	BklynMom	12/26/11 10:22 PM
Re: Too little, Too late.	labug	12/26/11 11:10 PM

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