"Right now, my W would have a whole lot of convincing to do if she wanted to come back. I would certainly be willing to work with her, but I absolutely can't return to the old M. No way."

JB I am going through this^^^^^^. The need to beg and for her to reconsider is lessening. I guess that is normal. So keep moving forward as you are. They will join us if they want if not we will be ok.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden