"Its the guilt of being with OM."

witz I don't have experience with this^^^^. My stich is different as I don't think there is OP. I have read that the worse thing you can do is making her feel guilty. Others will hopefully will give you more advice. But I think it is the same. Work on you, make yourself look attractive, don't think of OM, W or the M. Think about this. The people who came here are special, really. Millions get D every year but only a few maked it here? Wonder why? So be the best dad and man you can be for now. Let her do what she wants since you can't stop it. Hang in there


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden