You getting better should not be a comparison with your oblivious W who is just going on as if nothing happened (new car, new place, new job). It's not a comparison with her...it's your own deal. Compare your growth to your own...and stop comparing your insides to your W's outsides.
Progress from 'feelings' to rational thought.
The only thing you can do anything about is you.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
