Yes, you are right, and it is good to hear from you. I think my xh found out who I was, and then I stopped posting for quite a while as I got my head back together. I was a different person by then, and it also seemed safer to change my user name.
If I am frank I still miss my old life. We were such a loving and secure family, or so we thought. I am extremely proud of what we have rebuilt, and grateful for all the many blessings I have, but to some extent I am still a refugee in another country. A country which has been good to me, but my homeland for so long was my marriage. But I have met amazing people, and my h was going crazy, so that life would not have gone on, even if he had not run off quite so dramatically!
If you have my details do get in touch [exchanging them now as you know is not allowed]
