Carefully moving forward from H's mlc - ctflor

[AntoniaB]

Ok but just because HE says he's over her, and he was an idiot, well, so what? I remember hearing this, "I'm not broken" in the same week that OW was revealed.

What he needs to understand is that he said all kinds of stuff that was probably affirming that turned out not to be.

I mean, if he's 100% truthful now, GREAT. But you aren't the person who can buy it.

I don't know what it takes for you to believe it. I'm very sorry for you, in a way, because as much as I'd like to hear what you are hearing, I'd be just as fearful as you.

Do you have a counselor to talk to? I feel like talking to anyone "here" who is so destroyed by someone's actions and betrayal might make things worse ;-)