WHG - any time I communicate with my W about S, I'm usually pretty responsive. If she needs me to do her a favor, not so much - I respond when it's convenient. If she wants to chit-chat, which isn't very often - it's usually when there's something else to talk about - I'm not in a hurry to respond. I think you had a good perspective when you thought about what you'd do after D.
Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
but regarding your son, communication is key.
I agree with this. This is for your S, not for your W.
Yes, your W may be in for an awakening if you D. You won't be there anymore at her fingertips.