I totally get the "other guy"... I think our self confidence has taken a huge hit..when your H picks OW over you, you tend to beat yourself up a bit...(no sh#!).. i would love another male to pay attention to me right now...i feel completely second best...
Take it for what it is..an ego boost, and squeeze every once of confidence out of it!!
I know you can do whats right for you...we will be there for you..


Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...