25, don't mean to hijack thread, I see you have been giving some great advice. I was curious about Retrovaille and looked up some info on it. It all seems very interesting. At what point would you ask a WAS to try it, you say maybe piecing, but can it be used before it? It seems funny, other people on the boards talk about signs on not quitting, but when I looked at the website, I sort of got a sign. Earlier in the night I had prayed and asked God for a sign on what would be best for W and S to be happy, and when looking at the website for Retrovaille it mentioned the patron saint is St. Joseph. Well being raised catholic I chose St. Joseph as my patron Saint for confirmation and was born on St. Josephs day (March 19th). Could be a few silly coincidences, but hey you never know. I saw there is one in my area January 20th. Would this be too soon? How do you exactly ask a WAS to attend something like this?


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped