Hey CO1978, you are right we definetly have to start somewhere. I have been doing pretty much the same thing as you i.e. being up beat, more laid back, eye contact...

I am starting to notice that the fake it till you make it thing really does work. I have noticed that I am becoming a happier person overall. Don't get me wrong I still have alot of sh!tty moments/days, but for the first time in my life I am beginning to understand that I am in control of my own happiness.


M:(f) 35
W: 45
3 dogs and 2 cats
T: 9 years
9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you
OW confirmed 12/23/11