Also...

I know two women who have dealt w/a marital situation that I have always said...

"They had the saddest smile."

One of them was married to one of my good (male) friends from high school. It's funny. I never even talked to him anymore, but his wife and I had our boys in Junior Golf together.

And, I really didn't even talk much to her, and not even about her marital problems. I just knew that if she had that sad of a smile. He was so darn guilty!

I grew to hate that MF'er. So much so that he showed up at my house for a 4th of July party w/my friend once. He had no idea I hated him, or that I knew his wife (sort of). I was incensed to see him there. Kicked his rear to the curb immediately... I can still remember his sorry look... "WHAT? What did I do?"

LoL Funny now, but, found out later he was a serial cheater.

That'll teach him. No cheaters partyin' w/Mindfull.

Anyways, my little story was to let you know that you will have a sad smile no matter... It's okay to show it, too, you know.

Good Luck tonight.


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.