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Had a backslide on the phone with her on Thursday about mail and how she doesn't need to hide things from me


Isn't it funny how they still hide stuff? What should it matter? It's out there in the open... yet some part of them still has this need to hide. I've wondered if it's fear, security, shame, regret or some mix of this that drives it.

A few weeks ago my W blew up at me b/c she thought I was snooping on her smoking in the garage. She told me then that she has nothing to hide and I can ask anything and she'll tell me the truth. Yet I know she hasn't told me the truth on a number of things... I found myself wanting to call her today to test that statement of hers... and then decided why bother. It will only anger her, hurt me, and push her further away. Just let life run its course, what's meant to be will be.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD