Well.. I decided to wait about two hours. I simply said that I know it's frustrating and not sure how we can get it across to him, but we'll figure it out.
I really went back and forth in my own head. I finally came to the decision of "what would I do if we were divorced?" I'd probably reply, but at my own schedule. It's about my son after all and about an issue we have been discussing is a problem.
At the same time I can also see how this could be her reaching for security... making sure that while she goes off on her "grand adventure" that someone is still there to help pick up the pieces if things get to crazy. Not that it's love motivating that... just the need to have someone reliable as an anchor.
So I still don't know if what I did was the right action... or if there is a right action... or just versions of right or versions of wrong. And no one action will do or undo this...
Awesome... and Pandora Radio decides to play the Bruno Mars song that S and I sang to W on her birthday this past year. That's what I needed today.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD