"What a turn around for W, when, after treating you like crap you treat her with respect and dignity. This, gets a WAS thinkin'. Down the road, if not already, she'll be thinking of this."
This thought has crossed my mind many times. I think this is taking the high road. It is tough to think about though relative to doing 180's. I'm normally treating her this way so she prob expects it. But not nec when she's treating me poorly. I just need to keep in I'm mind and do my best, knowing to avoid lingering or too much of a push.
I write today after an absence that coincides with her being gone for 6 days and returning this evening. Had a backslide on the phone with her on Thursday about mail and how she doesn't need to hide things from me, the details don't matter much, just know it was a conversation I didn't need to have. Learning. Friday was average and not much response to questions I had but not silence either. So Saturday i essentially ignore her and by Sunday mid day received a text asking how things were, I answered but short, she replied back and I left it at that. Monday morning, a Good Morning text. Did the same and today she let's me know when she's boarding the plane. It's very strange but it works. I have no idea what to expect for the evening, hoping for good things but planning on the status quo, just need the strength to keep db'ing.
