Hang in there 1978... remember it's a marathon not a sprint. Give W her space and let her figure it out, but don't rescue her. She picked a path, she needs to walk it. Trust me... I suck at this part and it keeps paying negative dividends since I don't do as I should.

And as far as the bed thing... obviously I don't know her financial situation or stresses. At the same time, our actions speak to our priorities. I would have to think she could find a used bed at a second-hand store or something for relatively cheap, and little kid mattresses aren't that much. But again, I don't know how tight cash is for her.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD