Ok... so this will sound very lame and I apologize... but this whole dim/dark thing and text messaging I have not been good at. I usually respond to a message from my W right away and my brain only kicks in after I've hit send.

So I have this text from my W complaining about S's behavior. I haven't responded. My gut says to not respond at all (though I can't tell you much angst that creates inside of me!), but part of me wonders if I shouldn't respond eventually... like say in an hour or two. I'm not good at this part yet... any suggestions?


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD