"I'll respond when I'm ready. Probably something like "The amount sounds familiar but I honestly don't remember. If it did happen, there would be a record of it on our joint checking account"
Val I would leave it at "it sounds familiar but I don't remember". let her figure it out. This weekend the meltdown I had started with me letting W know that she needs 3 years of bank statements not the last 3 statements. It snowed balled from there. We need them to figure things on their own and deal with the consequences. I know it is hard because we care. But every time I try to fix or point something out it back fires. ((()))
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
