Which brings me to the final point - our longing for another relactionship, to fill the gaps in our life, and help us to feel better about ourselves.
While there are some aspects of that in our desire to have a relationship, if you ask me I would say that I don't want a relationship until I have something to give. I've tried it other ways. Don't like it. Until I have more than enough in my own life and want to share it with somebody else, I don't want a relationship. It wouldn't work too well would it?
Merry Christmas. Or, if you are a Diamondhead, apparently the term is Cherry Cherry Christmas (not even sure what he meant, but whatever - I read too much...)
Peace, AJ
I think that was what I was trying to say - that our longing for a relationship to fill the void isn't healthy -that it isn't until we can be alone, and until we have something to give that we are in any way ready.
