I hear first Christmas' are always the hardest. Now is the time for you to pull all of your strength together and be there for your children. I know they are grown, but they will look to you for guidance on how to handle this painful situation.
It is up to you how far you want to show your strength. I think there is no harm for you being strong for you SIL's and nieces.. after all, they are just unfortunate casualties.
I think it speaks volumes about her family wanted you around and part of their lives.
I think it speaks even more volumes about your w and her actions towards her family.
You've come so far.. and although there is still much journey left, you are on the right path.
I hope your w finds hers as well. For her family's sake as well as her own.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
