I know. You just have to be prepared if it doesn't end up the way you want. By doing what I said, you will be in the 'best way' if your marriage does survive...and you will also be in the 'best way' if it doesn't. You don't have to stop caring...
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
