I hear you loud and clear, antlers. The problem is I have not arrived at the point where I don't care if my M works out. Granted, I know that I will live either way - but from the depth of my living soul I am hopeful that it works out over time. I get the feeling that you almost need to detach to the point of ambivalence. I'm striving to get there, but since I still get shook up when I see her I probably am not there just yet.
