Thanks for the feedback and support, folks. I both need and appreciate it.
Here is the paradox of DB'ing that I am trying to embrace. Most of us are here because we are on the receiving end of a D or S and we WANT our spouse back. Yet, in order to meet this objective you need to stop thinking about your spouse and start focusing on yourself. It's like taking a left turn to eventually go right. Feels weird, but I am committed to it at this point.
Rick89 - I was thinking the same thing. That is kinda how I am trying to live my life right now!
