Bea,
Your posting is spot on. I couldn't agree w/you more.

You are not alone...there must be an island for those stuck in mlc...my xh is still there as well.

Have a great day!

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.