I understand that your DB'ing and sitch took years before a R happened. While you were detaching and GAL, and time was marching forward did you ever have someone express interest in a romantic relationship with you? How did it make you feel? How did you handle it, not knowing whether your WAS would ever return to you?
I am writing a book with a girl from London and we have a May publishing deadline so we are in constant contact. This is someone I have known as a great friend forever. BTW, she has a WAS too. She caught me off guard and asked if it were possible for us to create a life together. This really caught me off guard because there's never been anything romantic between us.
I am flattered by this. My immediate reaction, and then my more thought out reaction is that I absolutely do not want a life with anyone else, and I want my W to work through her issues, improve myself in what I need to, and hopefully R. I have no emotional doubt about how I feel.
I asked Kelli (London girl) if she really wants her M to work out and she said yes. I told her that I really want mine to work too.
