Peicing and hoping I'm doing the right thing.

[angel61]

Freebird, give him time. It took time to get to this point, it will take him time to get out of it. Remember, he chose you, he came back.

I think it is a valid point that during the early times of reconciliation, we should not rock the boat too much or else it will fail. Do not let yourself have too much expectations, but set boundaries in a gentle way. Remember you now have time, so in your mind, tell yourself that you will slowly make your way through. He did choose you, so that means in the end that you are the important one. He made a mistake, and realized it, and came back.

I haven't read your sitch but I just wanted to post to support you and share that we all have those feelings of insecurity, especially when OW is involved. I am struggling too, read my sitch as well here in piecing.

Once we have made the decision to take them back, we have to forgive them.

Just wondering, would you and your H be open to doing Retrouvaille? It is working wonders on our relationship.