Wow Cadet! Thanks so much! I have started my homework: reading through the going dark link. I will go through all the threads you suggested.

I am so grateful I found this DB community. You are all so supportive and inspiring.

M:12yr
06/11:IDLYA
07/11:Moves out
08/11:PA disc(began in May)
09/11:Moves w OW
10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt
11&12/11: Touchngo w me
1/12: Comes home-PA resumes
2/12: PA disc; PA ends
Today: Piecing