Well, my wife texted me last friday saying she thinks she wants to try counseling. I going out of town and told her I would think about it while I was out of town and I would like to talk to her before I make a decision. I just got home today and she is already texting me about come over tonight. This is all going way to fast but I'm willing to talk to see what she has to say. To be honest I'm not sure what my decision is at this point but I'm willing to at least listen, talk, and maybe go to counseling.

I have had my up and down times of bitterness with all of this. I seriously was ready to move on when all this happened. It is all too crazy for me. Everyone and I mean everyone is telling me to move on including her own mother. I know it is not their decision but I had moved on in every action I could including starting the papers.

I will try to be open for now to see where this goes but their is some major work ahead one way or another. This is the crazy thing I have ever been through. I will keep you guys updated.


Me:29
W:28
S:2
M: 5 years
Bomb: 7-26-11
Separated: 8-20-11
EA w/ multiple OMs
W filed 1/2012