In need of some quick advice. I haven't posted in awhile but have been following many sitchs.
Quick update: My husband and I have not spoken since mid October. He moved back in in Sept and then we made plans to leave our current place but then he backed out last minute. I have relocated but haven't heard from him except via email (business issues) which he initiated. I have moved to a new place and have been in contact with his family...I do not know of his whereabouts as I have officially made myself go dark.
Well, today he finally called. I did not answer and he left a text saying he wanted to see how I was doing and to apologize for his behavior the last time we spoke. He asked perhaps if I could call him when I had time but that he understood if I didn't feel like I could call.
I am wondering how or if I should respond. I want him to think/feel like I am doing just fine as per my sitch I did everything wrong with pleading/begging/negotiating in the past. I don't know if I can get my DB coach on the phone today so I thought I would reach out here. There was no talk of a reconciliation, I miss you, or I love you in the text. At this point though, I still don't know how much I trust his actions.
