Do I stay or do I go?

[anyhope]

H keeps calling still and came over the other day, again attempted to ask about us getting back together.. He also got me a luggage set I really liked for Christmas. I ended up pretty much kicking him out he got me so upset with acting needy.. (lol, it is true that it doesn't work) He left and called me about an hour later asking if I wanted to go away with him and try the new luggage.. Away where? I know for a fact he has no money so have I said yes he'd be using credit cards which is crazy I think..

Anyways.. I got even more upset told him again I have no intentions of getting back together right now and him constantly calling and asking is not helping.. I even sent him a clear message on facebook saying that i will consider but right now the answer is no and tomorrow will most likely be the same...I need time to think things over and by time I mean time not a day..

I also told him that IF I decide to give him another chance ow will have to be history, but as of now he's still very much living with her.

So long story short I dont know how to be any more clear than this, he already called today 3 times and I didnt pick up and will not pick up. A friend has invited me over on Wednesday he said only so and so will come and you should come to. Now he also invited H. I know he means well, but I decided not to go because I feel pressured by all the contact we have and we see each other way too much. Some meetings have to happen, some don't, so I'm skipping the Wednesday get together but I'll still see him at another friend's birthday party over the weekend, but if I could get a week without him even that would be great right now..