Thanks vc, but maybe I'm kidding myself about this??

Maybe she is happy for ever, maybe I am the past, and maybe this guy is the real deal to her, and the kids will just have to get used to it??

Even if the kids told her straight, we don't like him, we want dad back home, is that any base for a new relationship between me and her??

Getting back together for the kids??

I don't want that, I want to get back together for me and her!!