SD

I saw your post over in MLC land.

If it smells like a Rat, acts like a Rat, and looks like a Rat....

It probably is a Rat...


I would suggest reading some of the newer posters threads in MLC. At the beginning, there are some links posted by Cadet....

Read through some of them. Only you can decide if your spouse fits the criteria for MLC.

And it is a long , ugly road to travel.

Look for the links, and I will see if maybe I can get Cadet to post them here for you too.....

Keep posting and making friends here...

This is the best, worst place to be through this time in your life....