Hello 2,
First off, thank you for taking the time to respond to my post in such a thoughtful manner, I really appreciate the time you took!

I have pondered long and hard over whether at some point I will send an apology letter. My instincts tell me that at some point sending one is definatley appropriate, I just dont know when that point will be. I have discussed this with my DB coach and she also agrees that at some point a letter would be a good idea.

As I have been discovering along the way, low grade depression i a very very insidious thing. It can creep up on you over many years without you being aware. As I understand it, often times it just takes some type of trigger to get it to rea its ugly head. Over the years, you learn to develop very effective coping skills that allow you function pretty well in everyday life. But, along the way, alot of the joy out of life starts to slowly evaporate.

This has been one of my w's biggest complaints, that we didnt have fun anymore. I am not putting all or anywhere near all of the responsibility for my sitch on myself, but my unhappiness with life in general(not my m, I was very, very happy with it)could not but have affected my w. Maybe it is too late, i dont know.

In the meantime, I am out there plugging away and lerning more about myself everyday. Thanks again 2

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!