I must say I feel same exact way, and wish W and I had opportunity to ML, thinking that would reestablish a connection. But the reality of it is I don't think a true connection can be made that easy. Sure a connection is probably made for them, but only for that moment when you are ML. I think it takes a lot more than ML to reach our WAS, and that is why so many people here on the boards advise against ML.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped