Originally Posted By: gunny
From then on I I am now aware that I slowly began to withdraw from many relationships, I became more serious, less fun loving, more intent on trying to control the future, and a bit more angry.

This describes my H of the past year or two to a T, since his job changed to a secret military-type function. Would anything on your W's part have helped you, in retrospect?

Since the bomb and since I've been DBing he seems happier and less angry. But he's still withdrawing from relationships.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.