Hi Gunny. Interesting how one learns about one self when in this sitch. I think becoming co dependent is normal after so many years together.

I have been screwing up 3 back slides so far including last night. Had a D talk requested some forms that W keeps and we had a R talk. Couldn't control myself. Not angry or yelling just asking. I laughed a few times to some of her responses. Instead of listening, will have to do better next time. I just could not believe that she was denying certaing things to my face. I laughed in the past I would have gotten angry.

Hope we can continue to make changes so we can have happier and better lives in the future. Have a great one buddy.

PS: 25 degrees this morning.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden