Is this a mid-life crisis?

[Some Day]

I've been reading this thread and I am learning so much from all of your posts. Please forgive my hijacking, but wanted to ask those of you on here dealing with MLC spouse to please take a look at my sitch (I posted in Newcomers) and let me know your thoughts. Is this an MLC? What stage does my H appear to be in? I am on the right track? Many thanks for taking a look and posting!