Keep at it. It's a process that takes baby steps forward and you will find it slips back from time to time. The OW is much like a virus/parasite that is something that takes time to get rid of. They have to go through their process, as distasteful as it might be to us.
And as you'll find with many on this board... we'll be doing great.. .then something hits us like a ton of bricks and we all backslide, want to throw in the towel... and just roll into a ball and go to sleep. It happens, expect it. Have a source (here) and friends to vent to, to get through it.
Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.