Oh by the way, here's food for thought I found when reading posts in the other forum I post in....
Someone said that she thinks of the OW this way:
"if I think of OW as "the devil's tool", then it's not HER doing wrong.... "satan" has exploited HER weakness of character and my husband's weakness of character and been able to sneak in and TAKE THEM OVER to use for evil purposes..... "
I also think of my H's OW this way, and offer a prayer for her to see the right path and for her salvation as well....one canot be angry when one is praying for someone to be saved....
Angel, I'm having problems letting go of OW. Sometimes, when I'm done with my homework and I'm sitting here alone, I go to her facebook or blog. I look at her photos, and I feel angry, then sad...
I have to find a way to let her go. H has let her go for many weeks now... why can't I let her go?
I just see ow as a symptom of a big problem that was going on in our marriage.. and h has related his MLC as being part of his interest in her.
