The first gal - GAVE YOU HER PERSONAL EMAIL. That means she's comfortable with you. Chatting IS a gigantic time waster, exchanging emails can be done with less interuption to other, necessary activities.
As for the second gal - A) careful with those stalkerish tendencies there buddy. If I were her I'd be freaked out if I found out what you did. And B), why SHOULDN'T the owner of a high class salon use a free online dating site? I'm a doctor and I use one. Do you think only low class people like yourself should use one?
Rein in the suspiciousness and just get to a few coffee dates. This is not a mechanism to get to know them, it's a mechanism to get to that first coffee date - THEN you get to know them Capisch?
