I hear what you are saying about how long can you wait. What we are doing is so hard. Give yourself a pat on the back. You are doing this not only for your relationship with your H but also for your kids. 6 months or a year or even 2 years is not a long time over a lifetime. Hang in there!
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13