I am with yopu on the shaking and stuff. I look at my H and see someone who used to be so nice. And now he is just mean. And I walk away just so confused and upset.
Sounds like you handled it well. When I divide the Christmas stuff it will be easy. It is all mine. ;-)
Hang in there.
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!