Its so easy for us to say don't do it. But I know if my W asked me the same question, I'd probably jump at the chance and not look back. You have to think really hard to yourself, you made a promise not to do anything with him until OW was gone. Could you live with your decision? You are making great progress, and he is going to keep trying, the more you push away his advances for sex, the more he will try, maybe that will wake him up. I think giving in will set you back to zero on all your hard work.


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped