IB, There is no way that we can ever truly understand the workings of the mlc mind. They are truly lost souls who are attempting to find the illusive happiness that they think external pleasures will bring. Most of the time, they are trying to prove to the world and themselves that they did the right thing. Your xh is not different from the other mlcing nuts.
Please do not question yourself about what you shared w/him....he truly is on another planet and another time called the teenage years of rebelling.
Trust me.....he may appear to be happy right now, but his world will come crashing down eventually.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
