First post, words of wisdom needed

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I am in the same sitch. Luckily my W is going to IC for it. I try not to bring up anything about her PTSD or Depression, I just ask her id the counseling sessions (well so far she only went to 1, and is scheduled to go again in a week) are going well. I act "as if" around her, keep smiling and always look her in her eyes when we talk. I hope that comforts her. I just hope she when she is ready she will open up more to me, but until then I will continue to "small" talk with her. Heck you got to start somewhere. (Right now goal is to be friends, then "boyfriend & girlfriend", then best friends.)