Hi coyote. I've really been working hard at, and have made a firm commitment to, letting go. One important thing that I'm learning is to stop being the victim. Being a victim is common in heartbreak. But being a victim renders you powerless and that is the last thing you want while healing your heartbreak. I have to remember that I have control over my life unless I give it away. I may not have control over this particular situation, but I do have control over how I react to it. Victims have no control whatsoever. I have to affirm that I do have control over my life whenever I feel like a victim of heartbreak. It's a conscious decision I have to make.
You say that you're "good". Congratulations. I'm glad for ya'.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.