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When he gets home later, I will again demand that he buys me out. Will be also consulting with a divorce lawyer this week.


Ummm...this is a little backwards. Consult with the lawyer FIRST, find out what all your options are - THEN make your demands of H.

Ask the lawyer if you can kick him out but still make him pay his share of the mortgage. Or whether you should go ahead and put your house on the market now.

Just don't go off half-cocked. Get your legal plans all ironed out first.