Separated and almost divorced .........

[2thepoint]

Hey Billy, sorry your in such a tough place. Regarding Christmas, I probably wouldn't get her anything. And regarding the D, you can stop it now if you wanted to. You could instruct your L to stall, if you wanted to. If time is what you need, there are ways of getting it.

I think there are still things you can do from a DB perspective. It is hard to tell though from your post what you have tried and for how long.

You probably should consider posting a thread in the Newcomers forum, there is a lot more activity there and plenty of people willing to provide guidance. Also, if you do post a new thread, please provide as much detail about your situation as possible. The more information you provide, the easier it will be for people to provide guidance.

Good luck!