She's been a good friend to me through this, and occasionally we'll talk. I find her a little more attractive when she asks about my situation. She's also a totally different person than my W. Her situation is very much like the ones we see on this MB. I think it just serves to remind me there are (along with the women out here on this MB, of course! smile ) good women out there.
I've found that one of the easiest ways to make strong friendships during this time is talking to people of either sex who have been through a similar process. It's weirdly like joining a club -- only members really know what it's like, and they're able to bond with each other over that experience.
Originally Posted By: jbnati
He said she made a mistake moving out because she was unhappy. I asked him if she was happier now. He said no - she unhappier now than what she was. Now folks - she's not showing me this, but I don't expect her to either.
Very interesting. It's predictable that your S will see her at her most vulnerable and honest -- she only has to put up a front for you. Maybe the gears are starting to click in her head?
As always, GAL-ing like a pro, JB! Glad you enjoyed your day!
