Abbey, I am sorry about your situation. In a way though, if H can't wake up...he should know you can't live like this. You do not deserve this.

I am sure I am on a similar path. H was texting from his trip with OW to see where the kids are....we are at a hotel on our road trip. He said it sounded fun and asked what we are doing. I didn't ask him anything.

We all have our breaking points...


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012