Abbey, I am sorry about your situation. In a way though, if H can't wake up...he should know you can't live like this. You do not deserve this.
I am sure I am on a similar path. H was texting from his trip with OW to see where the kids are....we are at a hotel on our road trip. He said it sounded fun and asked what we are doing. I didn't ask him anything.
We all have our breaking points...
M 44, H 46 D11, D9, D5 Married 12 years PA confirmed 9/2011 I filed 3/2012 H moved out 7/2012