25, what responses were you referring to? I might have missed them....... Also, you hit the nail on the head regarding my concerns. I have no idea how to show her I see her perspective now.
Interesting 180 ( kinda like yours) from our text exchange last night. She asked me if I was getting video of our son. I said of course because now I take my camera every with me when he is with me. She replied "good, you used to dread when I would take pictures all the time". Instead of letting that blow by or worse, being snarky I simply said "well, now I don't want to miss any of his life. I see why you were always taking pictures.". No real response to that, but I hope it hit home.
Got an unsolicited blackberry picture of the baby trying to eat with chopsticks tonight. I replied with a heart and a smiley. It sure doesn't mean that we are "all good" but it least it is a nice gesture considering she knows how much I miss him.
